2024-07-29

The Dangers Of “Harmless” Men

• Given the inherent risks of dating, women are inclined to choose men whom they consider ‘harmless’.
• There are two kinds of ‘harmless’ men: those who are harmless by default because they lack enough agency to be dangerous and those who are harmless because they choose to be kind.
• It is easier to find the former as they are plentiful but they are dangerous because the lack of agency that makes them appear harmless results in the woman having to overcompensate for doing the mental work for both of them.