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Friends vs. Enablers
- Disagreement is the engine of friendship, it’s how different view points are folded together and integrated that matters and makes life richer
- A lot of friendships have co-existing realities where ‘everyone minds their own business’ – this dynamic makes no sense to me
- Friendship is about careful considerate interventions both to pump the brakes and to put a bit more on the accelerator
- Strangers have no incentive to check your ego and friends have the greatest incentive because an out of control ego will negatively affect their lives