Notes
These are my hot takes and rough notes. Thoughts, loosely held. Main site is here.
- hot take 1 2024-11-01
- Let It Happen 2024-10-31
- A Lover’s Healing 2024-10-31
- Death By Support System 2024-10-26
- Differently Shaped Containers For Differently Shaped Thoughts 2024-10-19
- To Clean The Table You Have To Put Everything On The Table 2024-10-17
- The Danger of Friend Groups 2024-10-14
- Respect Is The Heart of Love 2024-10-14
- Paying The Price For What You Want 2024-10-14
- Friends vs. Enablers 2024-10-14
- Fighting Over The Dishes 2024-10-14
- Consent Is Not A Magic Word 2024-10-14
- Breaches of Trust 2024-10-14
- Self-deception 2024-09-15
- Performed Care 2024-09-15
- Politics Is Downstream of Values 2024-09-04
- Couples Doing The Mountaineering Thing 2024-08-31
- Playing at Donnau115 2024-08-29
- Blogs to check periodically 2024-08-27
- On Being Overly Earnest 2024-08-25
- Middle Class Trophy Husbands 2024-08-25
- Women Speaking on Behalf Of Their Men 2024-08-24
- Intimacy Is Continuous Not Discreet 2024-08-23
- What Do Men Do On The Toilet For So Long 2024-08-22
- Pet Trapping Yourself 2024-08-22
- Pet / Child Trapping Your Partner 2024-08-22
- Passive Aggression Is Not Passive 2024-08-22
- Control Is Not Sustainable In Love 2024-08-22
- all about love, book notes 2024-08-22
- Adult Sleepovers 2024-08-22
- How Important Is Community? 2024-08-20
- “Catching Feelings” 2024-08-15
- What Has Brought Me Joy (August 2024) 2024-08-14
- The Men Who Change 2024-08-14
- No One In Control Issues An Ultimatum 2024-08-14
- since feeling is first – e.e. cummings 2024-08-13
- Flirting Is About Benevolent Transgressions 2024-08-13
- Whom I Think Of When I Think of Smoking 2024-08-09
- Loving Is An Affecting 2024-08-09
- Women-based MatchMaking 2024-08-07
- The Flawed Memory of Dating Apps 2024-08-07
- Privilege Paralyzes 2024-08-07
- Modern Dating Is Stranger Danger 2024-08-07
- The Sweat Gland Theory of Love 2024-08-06
- Boyfriends As Sperm Donors 2024-08-06
- Why Smoke Cigarettes? 2024-08-02
- To Leave You Must Love 2024-08-02
- Compassion Over Empathy 2024-08-02
- Hyper Independence As A Cope 2024-08-01
- Finding Freedom In A Bottle 2024-08-01
- The Red Pill 2024-07-31
- Patriarchy In The Streets, Matriarchy In The Sheets 2024-07-31
- Inceldom Is Not About Sex 2024-07-31
- Younger Siblings Must Die 2024-07-30
- The Problem With Instagram Is Friends 2024-07-30
- Normal Is What Happens At Home 2024-07-30
- Your Partner Is Not Your Best Friend 2024-07-29
- The Dangers Of “Harmless” Men 2024-07-29
- For Whom The Female Foot Pops 2024-07-29
- Children Of Divorces Getting Married 2024-07-29
- Call Me By Your Name 2024-07-28
- You’re Always Allowed To Change Your Mind 2024-07-26
- The Real Tragedy of ‘One Day’ 2024-07-26
- The Lost Men 2024-07-26
- The Diminishing Returns Of Dead Babies 2024-07-26
- Men-less Parenting 2024-07-26
- Judging People According To Political Beliefs 2024-07-26
- Home Was Made For Leaving 2024-07-26
- Germans Are Not Efficient 2024-07-26
- Do Not Take Normal Advice If You Are Not Normal 2024-07-26
- Desire Requires Separation 2024-07-26
- Countries Are Vassals For Companies 2024-07-26
- The Mute Husband And The Nagging Wife 2024-07-25
- Over-Protesting As Cope 2024-07-25
- No Complaining While You Have Dice In Your Hands 2024-07-25
- Cleaning As Conflict In Coupledom 2024-07-25
- “Men Are Trash” Is A Lament Not An Accusation 2024-07-25
- Your Therapist Will Never Slap You Like A Friend 2024-07-24
- We Live Amongst Digital Ghosts 2024-07-24
- The Dangers Of Adopted Wealth In Coupledom 2024-07-24
- Creating A Collar 2024-07-24
- Asians Exoticising Other Asians 2024-07-24
- Why You’re Anxious Reading The News 2024-07-23
- The Online Isolation Death Spiral 2024-07-23
- The Commodification of Experience 2024-07-23
- On Interventions 2024-07-23
- On Female Resentment 2024-07-23
- Norway Is Formally Liberal But Hypernormative 2024-07-23
- It’s Cheaper To Live In The Simulation 2024-07-23
- Friendship Is A Reality Sharing 2024-07-23
- Couples Treat Each Other Worse Than Friends 2024-07-23
- Apathy Is The Default Fail State For Men 2024-07-23
- Notes on Heteropessimism 2024-07-22
- The Experience Society Book Notes 2024-07-21