Before complaining about anything, ask yourself:

1.⁠ ⁠Have you understood the nature of the game you’re playing?
2.⁠ ⁠⁠Have you accurately modelled the other participants?
3.⁠ ⁠⁠Have you exerted max agency?

If you’ve understood the meta and maximised what you can, the rest should follow. If that fails, feel free to email me directly.