Tim’s notes
some thoughts, loosely held and ever-changing
Paying The Price For What You Want
Oct 14
Fighting Over The Dishes
Oct 14
Breaches of Trust
Oct 14
Consent Is Not A Magic Word
Oct 14
Respect Is The Heart of Love
Oct 14
Friends vs. Enablers
Oct 14
The Danger of Friend Groups
Oct 14
Hello world!
Oct 13
Self-deception
Sep 15
Performed Care
Sep 15
Politics Is Downstream of Values
Sep 4
Couples Doing The Mountaineering Thing
Aug 31
Playing at Donnau115
Aug 29
Blogs to check periodically
Aug 27
On Being Overly Earnest
Aug 25
Middle Class Trophy Husbands
Aug 25
Women Speaking on Behalf Of Their Men
Aug 24
Intimacy Is Continuous Not Discreet
Aug 23
Adult Sleepovers
Aug 22
Passive Aggression Is Not Passive
Aug 22
Pet / Child Trapping Your Partner
Aug 22
Pet Trapping Yourself
Aug 22
What Do Men Do On The Toilet For So Long
Aug 22
Control Is Not Sustainable In Love
Aug 22
all about love, book notes
Aug 22
How Important Is Community?
Aug 20
“Catching Feelings”
Aug 15
No One In Control Issues An Ultimatum
Aug 14
The Men Who Change
Aug 14
What Has Brought Me Joy (August 2024)
Aug 14
Flirting Is About Benevolent Transgressions
Aug 13
since feeling is first – e.e. cummings
Aug 13
Whom I Think Of When I Think of Smoking
Aug 9
Loving Is An Affecting
Aug 9
The Flawed Memory of Dating Apps
Aug 7
Women-based MatchMaking
Aug 7
Modern Dating Is Stranger Danger
Aug 7
Privilege Paralyzes
Aug 7
The Sweat Gland Theory of Love
Aug 6
Boyfriends As Sperm Donors
Aug 6
To Leave You Must Love
Aug 2
Why Smoke Cigarettes?
Aug 2
Compassion Over Empathy
Aug 2
Hyper Independence As A Cope
Aug 1
Finding Freedom In A Bottle
Aug 1
Patriarchy In The Streets, Matriarchy In The Sheets
Jul 31
Inceldom Is Not About Sex
Jul 31
The Red Pill
Jul 31
Normal Is What Happens At Home
Jul 30
Younger Siblings Must Die
Jul 30
The Problem With Instagram Is Friends
Jul 30
For Whom The Female Foot Pops
Jul 29
Children Of Divorces Getting Married
Jul 29
Your Partner Is Not Your Best Friend
Jul 29
The Dangers Of “Harmless” Men
Jul 29
Call Me By Your Name
Jul 28
Germans Are Not Efficient
Jul 26
Countries Are Vassals For Companies
Jul 26
Do Not Take Normal Advice If You Are Not Normal
Jul 26
The Real Tragedy of ‘One Day’
Jul 26
Judging People According To Political Beliefs
Jul 26
The Diminishing Returns Of Dead Babies
Jul 26
Desire Requires Separation
Jul 26
You’re Always Allowed To Change Your Mind
Jul 26
Men-less Parenting
Jul 26
The Lost Men
Jul 26
Home Was Made For Leaving
Jul 26
Cleaning As Conflict In Coupledom
Jul 25
The Mute Husband And The Nagging Wife
Jul 25
Over-Protesting As Cope
Jul 25
“Men Are Trash” Is A Lament Not An Accusation
Jul 25
No Complaining While You Have Dice In Your Hands
Jul 25
Your Therapist Will Never Slap You Like A Friend
Jul 24
We Live Amongst Digital Ghosts
Jul 24
The Dangers Of Adopted Wealth In Coupledom
Jul 24
Creating A Collar
Jul 24
Asians Exoticising Other Asians
Jul 24
The Online Isolation Death Spiral
Jul 23
Why You’re Anxious Reading The News
Jul 23
On Interventions
Jul 23
Norway Is Formally Liberal But Hypernormative
Jul 23
Friendship Is A Reality Sharing
Jul 23
On Female Resentment
Jul 23
Apathy Is The Default Fail State For Men
Jul 23
Couples Treat Each Other Worse Than Friends
Jul 23
The Commodification of Experience
Jul 23
It’s Cheaper To Live In The Simulation
Jul 23
Notes on Heteropessimism
Jul 22
The Experience Society Book Notes
Jul 21
